Of course, problems will come up, and might really bug you at times. When that happens, the first place to turn is the Lord, of course. Here are some other helps.
First, you can ask someone to help if you’re responsible for younger siblings and you haven’t been asked specifically to baby-sit. Passing the buck isn’t a good idea, but if it keeps you from screaming some day. Go ahead.
Smile and have fun. Kids will remember the fun they had. Remember good times and the fun you have. Sometimes a smile and an excited hug will be your only thanks, but it is a big “thank you” – though of course, you should teach them to verbally say it, too, along with practicing it yourself. Kids are like copying machines.
Remind yourself you love them – you might have to over and over with a really wild one, but they really do notice how much you care. In fact, when they get to a certain age, they’ll know they drive you nuts and will really be amazed at how you do it. And yet, they’ll know that you are being an example of our ever-loving God, and He puts up with a world filled with us crazy people, all the time.
Remember, too, that everyone needs attention. Many times, a kid will ask “why” a bunch of times because they want to converse and don’t know how yet. Come up with some willy stuff, or ask them what they think. Have lots of distractions around like coloring books, paper, and of course, plenty of wholesome stuff to read. Nowadays, if you have the Internet, you can find lots of stuff to just print out.
Have a routine, and stick to it as much as possible. Tell small children ahead of time that you plan to deviate from it and why, if need be Young kids need time to prepare for things; and may when older, too, in some situations.
Turn off the TV and have plenty of fun time. Monitor what others are watching and looking at; remember, you’re a gatekeeper as a leader.
