You may think, “Didn’t we talk about this?” Yes, but that was in general. It was there to instruct on how to pray, what prayer was, and so on.
The only way to be a spiritual leader is through constant prayer. One great piece of advice I heard in preparing this book was that this person knew her boyfriend was special because they could pray easily together. This is in addition to all the other important things mentioned about boy-girl relationships.
That, and the specifics below, are the type that the general information earlier will help you with, so you can pray even more effectively in these areas.